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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 19.06.2025 00:56

How does one succeed in life?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

When was the first time your wife had beastiality?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Why don't I want to talk to my girlfriend when she loves me a lot? I feel bored.

Does not procrastinate.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

What is your most intimate experience with your best friend?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Why is only the left side of my vagina bleeding, on and off?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Why do I sweat a great deal while exercising the same on some days and not so much on others?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Making more friends is a goal.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Procrastinates a lot.

That's it for today.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Ask yourself:

What I need from you?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.